tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571509939428152996.post3996658403853203655..comments2023-06-30T08:53:18.940-04:00Comments on ask a guy who likes fat chicks: askaguywholikesfatchickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07411347596512998341noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571509939428152996.post-42525626128156864352010-09-21T12:45:02.763-04:002010-09-21T12:45:02.763-04:00DISAGREE with the whole discourse surrounding this...DISAGREE with the whole discourse surrounding this. People should have sex however they want to! No one should tell a woman or a man for that matter what to do with their body. If a fat girl likes "vanilla sex", that doesnt involve fetish play (squashing,etc) she should find a guy who likes big women and also likes vanilla/non-fetish sex. I am a big woman with a man who likes big women but doesn't like to think of me as some huge bumbling elephant that squashes people. I am happy to use my curves and soft places, but squashing is sorta of demeaning. It is like seeing the fat as something destructive and all consuming. Like having sex for the fat, not for the beauty of the woman. Squashing isn't pretty or beautiful in the eyes of some people (it might be to others) but not to Lyric. SO LAY OFF HERAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571509939428152996.post-51476153630517864462009-01-29T13:59:00.000-05:002009-01-29T13:59:00.000-05:00This entry is pretty literal, actually.Sure, you d...This entry is pretty literal, actually.<BR/><BR/>Sure, you don't HAVE to do these things, but obviously you want a guy who doesn't request them. And if all the guys you meet are requesting them, you can either give in and try them out or try to lose weight and have better luck. No matter who admits it or not: I do not know how someone can insist they're happy enough and comfortable with their body and aspire to sex that uses LESS of said body. Sex is about doing as many things as you're capable of that feel good to the other person, and they're expected to do it back.askaguywholikesfatchickshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07411347596512998341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571509939428152996.post-11494369049934631512009-01-29T10:28:00.000-05:002009-01-29T10:28:00.000-05:00This response doesn't really move us forward, too ...This response doesn't really move us forward, too bogged down by back-patting cute, I-write-for-the-laughs rhetoric. And to weight so much on the lose it if you don't use it shit? You know better.<BR/><BR/>My real point, however, is that not all men (or any of us) attracted to fat are into squashing, face-sitting, or wobbly bits sex. It's true! I hate the idea of chubby lovers new to the game reading this and saying, ah, well, guess that's not for me. Just 'cause it's your cup of tea don't mean it's everyone's.<BR/><BR/>To Lyric, I'd say try it if you haven't just to see for sure what's up, but I wouldn't be as shocked as Ask a Guy if your partner says, "meh, let's do it the old fashioned way, fatty."<BR/><BR/>In so many words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com