Monday, June 28, 2010

Do the people in your life disapprove of you dating fat girls? How do you deal with the criticism?

No one I deal with on a regular basis at the age of 25 gives me shit, really. But I'm kind of in a bubble; I think my reputation precedes me by now (unfathomable to me ten years ago, when I was terrified people would "find out" and "use it against me"). Friends joke, occasionally a newb doesn't believe me--been accused of making it all up out of "low self-esteem" and my favorite, "just trying to be different" (cuffs please!). But for the most part, if anyone's thinking truly impolite thoughts, they're not talking. If they did, I'd probably "deal with the criticism" by not having my brain, heart and dick reprogrammed by crowdsourcing and continuing to exist as I am. Maybe when I get older people will start giving me the "she's gonna die" spiel, as much of the Western world feels is their moral mission.

3 comments:

  1. When I date a fatty my friends cannot understand how is that possible that I'm dating with a woman from THAT BIG, and I dont know, I'm so proud of that, when someone ask me "Do you like fat girls?" I answer so proudly "YES, THEY'RE MY TYPE" and they look at me like "WOW YOU'RE NUTS!".
    I think that there shouldnt be a stereotype in woman, they're all beautiful, in all kins. It's just that some choose skynny and others fattys, some whities and some blackies, it's just that.

    Sorry for my english, I'm from Argentina. Thank you for creating this blog, now I dont feel so alone. :)

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  2. I met a guy who likes fat chicks. I am 200 and he helped me realize that women can miss out on enjoying life worrying about weight too much. A guy who loves BBW said it best. Women of all sizes can enjoy being sexy. Self love is key. Continue spreading the word that we don't have to conform to the media definition of beautiful. Different strokes for different folks. Nothing in creation is shaped the same.

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  3. I met a guy who likes fat chicks. I am 200 and he helped me realize that women can miss out on enjoying life worrying about weight too much. A guy who loves BBW said it best. Women of all sizes can enjoy being sexy. Self love is key. Continue spreading the word that we don't have to conform to the media definition of beautiful. Different strokes for different folks. Nothing in creation is shaped the same.

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